Moving Through Loss: Why We Need to Stop Trying to 'Get Over' It
The Midlife Rebel PodcastOctober 06, 202600:53:28

Moving Through Loss: Why We Need to Stop Trying to 'Get Over' It

Grief isn't something we simply "get over". When someone we love dies, the world we knew with them in it has changed. So how do we learn to live again after loss?

In this episode of The Midlife Rebel Podcast, I'm joined by philosopher and author Thomas Attig, who has spent decades exploring death, dying, grief and bereavement.

At the heart of Thomas's philosophy is the idea that **grieving is relearning the world**. Rather than following a predictable set of stages or trying to "move on", grieving involves gradually learning how to live within a reality that has been profoundly changed by loss.

We explore how grief can affect far more than our emotions. It can change our relationships, routines, work, finances, faith and even our sense of identity.

Thomas also shares his thoughts on supporting someone who is grieving. What do we say when there are no right words? What actually helps? And why can simply listening and allowing someone to talk openly about their loss be so powerful?

We also discuss:

* Grief as a process of relearning the world
* Navigating life after the death of someone you love
* Why grief doesn't follow a neat set of stages
* The difference between problems we can solve and life's deeper mysteries
* How loss can change our sense of identity
* Supporting someone through grief and bereavement
* Continuing bonds with someone who has died
* Thomas's concept of "loving in separation"
* Finding ways to live fully while continuing to love and remember someone who is no longer physically here

This is a thoughtful and compassionate conversation for anyone experiencing grief, supporting someone through bereavement, or trying to understand how we find our way in a world changed by loss.



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